Become a Partner - Help Couples Rebuild Trust

Help Couples Rebuild Trust After Infidelity — Without Losing Yourself in the Process

A proven roadmap for therapists guiding couples through the aftermath of betrayal.

The Challenge Every Therapist Knows

When betrayal enters the room, everything changes.
You know the moment:

A couple sits before you, and the air is heavy.
One partner is desperate for answers, while the other is weighed down by guilt or defensiveness.
The pain between them fills the space, and suddenly their crisis risks becoming your crisis.

Sessions spiral. Conversations loop back to the same raw hurt. You leave wondering if anything is really moving forward.

There Is a Way Forward

It doesn’t have to be this way.

The Together Through Despair Method gives you a structured, shared process to guide couples after infidelity—without sessions dissolving into chaos.

Couples work through the program step by step at home.

You guide them in-session, using a clear structure that keeps the focus where it needs to be.

Step 1

Start Free

The Therapist Starter Kit (Free)

Get an inside look at the method and discover how it can strengthen your practice.

Your free Starter Kit includes:

7 Tips for guiding couples in a crisis of trust (PDF)
10 Focus Points for working with couples after infidelity (Checklist)
From Chaos to Clarity (Recorded presentation: method overview + partner opportunities)

Step 2

Become Certified

Certified TTD Therapist Program (Paid)

For therapists ready to fully integrate the Together Through Despair process into their work—while clients follow the program themselves.

As a Certified Partner, you receive:

Therapist Overview Guide – phase-by-phase structure, objectives, and strategies
Official license to use TTD in your sessions
Therapist Implementation one-page
Marketing visibility – profile on our site + “Certified TTD Therapist” badge
Ongoing support – email access for case-related questions
Optional affiliate program – earn 30% commission when clients purchase via your link.

What’s not included:

The full client program for personal use
Downloadable client materials

A young couple faced challenges when the husband’s sex/porn addiction came to light. With support from S.A.M.E.N. (Dutch version of this programme) and counselling sessions, they learned to communicate about their pain, frustrations and desires. They are currently expecting their first child, and though they continue to work through challenges, their bond has been strengthened. The husband was deeply moved when his wife expressed the depth of the love she feels for her husband. Their commitment to therapy and the S.A.M.E.N. programme, along with regular get-togethers with their respective buddies, has been transformative. As their therapist, the most rewarding feedback I received was: “You taught us to communicate, and now we continue that at home.

“I assist couples using the (Dutch) S.A.M.E.N. programme, which acknowledges both partners and quickly turns their issues into a joint effort. The programme directs my approach as a therapist. While couples work independently, I offer support through regular check-ins, weekly in the beginning, and regulate the lessons according to the progress they make.”

My clients navigate the programme on their own, but I monitor their pace to ensure they don’t rush. I use the online structure and schedule intermittent sessions with them. Additionally, I integrate EFT into our sessions.

Why Therapists Trust This Method

Keeps sessions focused and productive
Creates a shared language between therapist and clients
Reduces repetition and therapist burnout
Positions you as a trusted recovery specialist

Choose Your Next Step

Get the Starter Kit today and explore the method risk-free.

Already know you want to integrate TTD into your practice?